What Not to Say

[Izazel]

But then we come back to the issue that there is an expectation that people have knowledge/experience dealing with this issue. Not everyone reads the forums. Not everyone knows you or considers pronouns in their everyday life. Not everyone understands the ettiquette of gender identity. What might be an omnipresent occurrence for you, may not be for others. I'm not devaluing the pain or distress it causes you, I'm trying to build an understanding for both sides. So thank you for sharing your experience, hopefully those who read it will use the language you're suggesting instead.